Why School Readiness Matters
- The Green Elephant

- Sep 8
- 4 min read
Updated: Oct 14

For many parents, the thought of their child starting school brings a mix of excitement and worry. Beyond buying uniforms and lunchboxes, there’s a deeper question:
School readiness isn’t just about being able to count or recognise letters; it’s about whether your child has the social, emotional, physical, and cognitive skills to adapt and thrive in a school environment. Understanding and supporting these areas early on can make the transition smoother and set your child up for a lifetime of learning and confidence.
And if you’d like to learn more about early childhood development and the benefits of quality early learning, visit our Rosebery Centre.
What Is School Readiness?
School readiness is a combination of four interconnected pillars:
Cognitive readiness: This includes basic understanding of numbers, letters, shapes, and the ability to follow directions and problem-solve.
Social readiness: Children need to interact positively with peers and adults, share, take turns, and work in a group.
Emotional readiness: Managing emotions like frustration or anxiety, and showing resilience when things don’t go as planned.
Physical readiness: Gross and fine motor skills, like being able to sit at a desk, hold a pencil, carry a backpack, and move confidently in the playground.
These areas work together to help a child feel comfortable, capable, and curious, making the transition to school less daunting and more exciting.
Signs Your Child Is Ready for School
Every child develops at their own pace, but there are some common signs (academic and non-academic) that suggest your little one is on the right track.
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Recognises some letters and numbers
Enjoys listening to stories and can retell simple parts
Can follow two- or three-step instructions
Has a basic understanding of time (like “after lunch” or “tomorrow”)
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Can be separated from a parent or caregiver with minimal distress
Can sit still and focus for short periods
Plays cooperatively with other children (sharing, taking turns, resolving minor conflicts)
Demonstrates self-help skills like dressing, toileting, and opening their lunchbox
For example, a child who can join in a group game at preschool, ask for help when needed, and pack away their toys shows a great mix of readiness skills — even if they’re not yet writing their name perfectly.
Common Misconceptions About Readiness
It’s easy to misunderstand what school readiness really means. Here are a few common myths and the reality behind them:
Myth: My child needs to read and write before starting school.
Fact: Schools teach reading and writing. What’s more important is that your child is curious, engaged, and able to focus on learning tasks.
Myth: Only academic skills matter.
Fact: Social and emotional skills — like getting along with peers, coping with disappointment, and staying calm — are just as important, if not more so, than knowing letters and numbers.
Myth: Readiness is just about age.
Fact: While age plays a role, children mature differently. A younger child might be very ready socially and emotionally, while an older child might still need support.
Understanding these misconceptions can help you focus on your child’s overall development instead of worrying about arbitrary child development milestones.
How to Support Your Child’s School Readiness
As a parent, you play the most important role in preparing your child. Here are some practical ways you can help:
Build routines by maintaining consistent bedtimes, mealtimes, and playtimes. This gives children a sense of security and helps them adapt to school schedules.
Arrange playdates or join group activities to help your child practice sharing, waiting their turn, and making friends.
Talk with your child about their feelings, ask open-ended questions, and encourage them to express themselves.
Let your child practice independence by dressing themselves, packing their own bag, and using the toilet without help.
Read together. Storytime helps develop language skills, concentration, and a love of learning.
By focusing on small, consistent actions, you help your child develop confidence and readiness in all areas.
Role of Early Learning Environments
High-quality preschools, childcare centres, and early learning programs are invaluable in supporting school readiness. They provide structured environments where children can develop all four readiness pillars under the guidance of trained educators.
At centres like our Rosebery location, children are encouraged to explore, play, and build skills at their own pace while receiving individual support.
Importantly, readiness is best achieved through collaboration, when parents and educators work together to understand and support each child’s unique needs and strengths.
Frequently Asked Questions
What age should my child be ready for school?
In Australia, children typically start school between 5 and 6 years old, though readiness depends more on development than age. Some children may benefit from an extra year in early learning before starting school.
What if my child struggles with separation anxiety?
This is common and often temporary. Practising short separations, establishing goodbye rituals, and reassuring your child can help. Rest assured: early learning centres are skilled at supporting children through this transition.
Can I delay school if my child isn’t ready?
In many states and territories, you can discuss deferral options with your child’s educators or school principal if readiness is a concern.
Are academic skills more important than social skills?
Both are important, but social and emotional skills often have a bigger impact early on. A child who can work with others and manage their feelings is usually more prepared to learn academically.
How does play-based learning help with readiness?
Play-based learning nurtures creativity, problem-solving, and social interaction while introducing academic concepts in a developmentally appropriate way. This makes learning enjoyable and meaningful.
Conclusion
At The Green Elephant, we believe school readiness is a holistic picture of your child’s development: socially, emotionally, cognitively, and physically. By understanding what readiness really means, addressing misconceptions, and supporting your child through routines, play, and early learning experiences, you can set them up for a positive start to school and beyond.
If you’d like to learn more about how our team can support your child’s journey, book a tour of one of our early learning centres.
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